14 July 2009

Marriage is not just for sex!

Assalamualaikum,

In my opinion, it is inappropriate to tell to the world about your marriage crisis into a TV series. I don't understand why the young lady of Manohara accepted the offer from the producers to become an actress. Does she get relief from her traumatic health problems? Doesn't she feel ashamed to act in her nightmare-true-story-based-drama-series? I think she just makes a fool out of herself. Pity of her, many people are manipulating or exploiting her without her realized. Actually, I do feel sorry of her marriage life. She claimed that she had been sexually abused by her Malaysian prince husband. What a scary marriage she had, huh! Oh... What people especially that kind of man think about marriage nowadays? Is that just only for sex?

Hurm...I remembered a quote from a film with the title of 'Cinta' that I have watched a few years ago, an old man who had an alzheimer disease said which similarly like this

Isteri bukanlah hak milik tetapi anugerah

Yeah, It was a touchful movie about how people defined love.

Haa...besides I would also like to add up one more word at the end of the quote which I think it would be more meaningful then

Isteri bukanlah hak milik tetapi anugerah & amanah

Supposingly, Marriage is a mutual agreement for husband and wife to complete each other under blessing of Allah. A husband should responsible to take a good care of his wife as well as a wife should pay respect to her husband. Man, please protect your wife. Woman, please respect your husband. Insyaallah, pernikahan barakah should be our aim!

Chill!


3 comments:

  1. betul tu..hawa diciptakan untuk adam, bukan untuk dijadikn hamba atau dijadikan alas, tetapi untuk dilindungi dididk dan diberi kasih sayang..
    kaum hawa merupakan sayap kiri kepada perjuangan kaum adam..andai kata tergeliat sebelah sayap, mampukah adam menongkah angin ribut taufan melanda..:-)

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  2. Pernikahan itu adalah Sunnah...

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